I am an escapist

Apparently, I'm an escapist. HUH?

Ever since I departed the stifling island that is Singapore, I've always made clear my intentions to carve out a future somewhere. And since I sorta grew accustomed to Sydney, well, I made it perfectly clear to my family that I would do my utmost to attain PR over there.

Now, apparently after this most recent episode, my mom believes I should not spend anymore time beyond required in Australia and make my way back to Singapore.

She "Study hard, spend the time you need to spend there, and then come back."
I stare at her blankly.
She "Come back okay? Don't be an...escapist."

Why the sudden about turn? Yes I know things are a bit different now. But if I were to come back eventually, why would I even consider doing my masters? Things have changed yes but if that is the case, shouldn't I be revising my plans accordingly?

Yes, I am an escapist. Escaping from a life devoid of ... well... life really.